{"id":634459,"date":"2021-02-09T12:00:14","date_gmt":"2021-02-09T18:00:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/junebugweddings.com\/wedding-blog\/?p=634459"},"modified":"2021-02-11T12:00:35","modified_gmt":"2021-02-11T18:00:35","slug":"9-ways-personalize-wedding-ceremony","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/junebugweddings.com\/wedding-blog\/9-ways-personalize-wedding-ceremony\/","title":{"rendered":"9 Ways to Personalize Your Wedding Ceremony"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><body><div id=\"attachment_767649\" style=\"width: 710px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-767649\" class=\"wp-image-767649 size-full\" src=\"\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/second-line-and-dance-party-16.jpg\" alt=\"personalize your wedding photo\" width=\"700\" height=\"467\"><p id=\"caption-attachment-767649\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">photo by <a href=\"http:\/\/www.sharonpye.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Sharon Pye Photography<\/a><\/p><\/div>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Congratulations on your engagement! It&rsquo;s time to start planning a dreamy wedding to celebrate your love. Since this day is about you and your partner, add your own personal touches to it and <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/junebugweddings.com\/wedding-blog\/unique-wedding-planning\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">make it unique to your relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. A wedding doesn&rsquo;t have to just be during the ceremony, or even a grand surprise&mdash;although most people love a good surprise. We have rounded up nine unique ways to personalize your wedding from the smallest details to a grand gesture.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">1. Skip The Traditions<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/junebugweddings.com\/wedding-blog\/5-wedding-traditions-you-might-want-to-rethink-what-to-do-instead\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Wedding traditions<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> may not fit you and your partner&rsquo;s style. If there isn&rsquo;t a specific tradition that feels authentic to you and your partner, then opt out of it. There aren&rsquo;t any rules that say <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">how<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> to throw a wedding, so don&rsquo;t feel pressured to follow traditions that aren&rsquo;t <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/junebugweddings.com\/wedding-blog\/unique-wedding-planning\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">unique to your love<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sit down with your significant other and go through <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/junebugweddings.com\/wedding-blog\/the-ultimate-wedding-planning-guide-a-free-step-by-step-roadmap\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">a wedding planning checklist<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&mdash;be sure to stay at a high level. This will help you figure out what traditions you&rsquo;re not interested in following, and then lean into your interests when you <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/junebugweddings.com\/wedding-blog\/5-steps-making-wedding-mood-board\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">create a wedding mood board.<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Find colors you both love, things you want to do to celebrate your union, and then lay it all out there.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_767648\" style=\"width: 710px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-767648\" class=\"wp-image-767648 size-full\" src=\"\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/Cappadocia_Elopement_Louise___James__-_113.jpg\" alt=\"couple eloping and their personal wedding vows\" width=\"700\" height=\"1049\"><p id=\"caption-attachment-767648\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">photo by <a href=\"https:\/\/www.phantien.fr\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\">Phan Tien<\/a><\/p><\/div>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">2. Write Your Own Vows<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here at Junebug, we&rsquo;re huge advocates of <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/junebugweddings.com\/wedding-blog\/6-unique-tips-for-writing-your-wedding-vows\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">writing your own vows<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. These words are straight from the heart and they make the ceremony extra special. Whether you use quotes from a song, write a poem, or just share why you love your partner, this is such an intimate moment that truly celebrates your love.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Plus, it helps make the ceremony truly feel <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">yours.<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> You don&rsquo;t have to be the world&rsquo;s greatest writer to tell your partner why you love them, so even if you&rsquo;re not confident that writing your own vows is for you, give it a try. Grab that pencil and paper and profess your love&mdash;it&rsquo;ll be worth it.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Shop vow books:&nbsp;<\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/rstyle.me\/+CMMUrrSqyR1gm_sdS-knPg\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\">personalized wedding vow book<\/a> ($24+); <a href=\"https:\/\/rstyle.me\/+HJ-loChu1HTGj8mupB8r2g\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\">set of 2 wedding vow books<\/a> ($25); <a href=\"https:\/\/rstyle.me\/+q-HSbbRRBR827uPjiM2zqA\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\">leather wedding vow book<\/a> ($20)<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">3. A Family And Friend Photo Wall<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">RSVPs are in, but not everyone on your list can make it. There&rsquo;s still a way to make it <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">feel<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> like they&rsquo;re there on your special day&mdash;a photo wall. When sending RSVPs&mdash;or after receiving regrets&mdash;request images from those who can&rsquo;t attend to print and hang.&nbsp; Whether you decide to display the photo wall at the ceremony or reception, this can also honor any late loved ones who you wish could be there.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_767652\" style=\"width: 710px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-767652\" class=\"wp-image-767652 size-full\" src=\"\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/MapCompassPhotography2020_PeterEmily-47.jpg\" alt=\"personalize wedding officiant\" width=\"700\" height=\"1049\"><p id=\"caption-attachment-767652\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">photo by <a href=\"https:\/\/www.mapandcompassphotography.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\">Map + Compass Photography<\/a><\/p><\/div>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">4. Ask A Friend Or Family Member To Officiate<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When it comes to officiants, picking out the perfect one can be difficult. Officiants are there to both help express the love between you two and also serve in a legal capacity to make sure you&rsquo;ve done everything to tie the knot. If you can&rsquo;t <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/junebugweddings.com\/vendors\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">find the perfect officiant<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> for your wedding, ask a close friend, or a close relative.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There&rsquo;s something special about asking someone you love to officiate your wedding. It always adds more personality when they tell the story of your relationship, narrate cute moments, and the day you both decided to spend the rest of your life together will be brighter for it.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">5. Pre-Write Thank You Cards For Guests<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A thank you card to your guests on your wedding day is a simple, sweet gesture that makes them feel especially welcomed. Leave them for your guests to find when they find their seats for your ceremony or reception.&nbsp; Obviously, a thank you card for any gifts is thoughtful after your wedding day is over, but this is both unique and personal to you and your guests.<\/span><\/p>\n<div data-sc-widget-id=\"P-6022dc172b88825334c9529c\"><\/div>\n<p><script async src=\"\/\/widgets.shopstyle.com\/shopstyle-widget-snippet.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">6. Leave A Shoe Note<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you haven&rsquo;t seen the infamous shoe note all over Pinterest, don&rsquo;t worry. The &ldquo;shoe note&rdquo; is a little love note or poem that you write on the bottom of your partner&rsquo;s wedding shoes.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This note may not last until the end of the night&mdash;especially if the dance floor is popping&mdash;but it&rsquo;s a fun and unique way to remind your partner that you love them before you say &ldquo;I do&rdquo;. Try writing it on the bottom of their shoe, or leave a tiny card inside of it, and get ready for happy tears!&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_767647\" style=\"width: 710px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-767647\" class=\"wp-image-767647 size-full\" src=\"\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/platinum-weddings-maui-sass-photo-montage-kapalua-4.jpg\" alt=\"firefighter wedding bouquet personalize\" width=\"700\" height=\"1050\"><p id=\"caption-attachment-767647\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">photo by <a href=\"http:\/\/www.sassphoto.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\">SASs Photography<\/a><\/p><\/div>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">7. Add Small But Meaningful Details&nbsp;<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Think of something meaningful. Picture it in your mind. Now, find a way to incorporate that meaningful item into your wedding day. Whether it&rsquo;s a family heirloom, your late grandfather&rsquo;s favorite shirt, or maybe even seashells from your first date, including heartfelt items into your wedding makes it that much more&mdash;well&mdash;special. Add the heirloom to your bouquet. Stitch the shirt into your dress or suit. Put the seashells in a vase on the couple&rsquo;s table. Get creative while you&rsquo;re brainstorming places to use these meaningful items.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">8. Personalize The Escort Cards<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It&rsquo;s likely that you&rsquo;re planning to put guests&rsquo; names on escort cards to help them find their seats. That&rsquo;s not what we mean by personalizing them. Go the extra step and add a memory or an inside joke onto each guest&rsquo;s card. Or turn their escort cards into faux Polaroid pictures that they can keep after the wedding.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Whatever you choose, don&rsquo;t feel obligated to have the escort cards match exactly with your wedding aesthetic. They can be as unique as the guests who will take those seats.<\/span><\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_767634\" style=\"width: 710px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-767634\" class=\"size-full wp-image-767634\" src=\"\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/HenryViet-Cle-Elum-Washington-5-Year-Vow-Renewal-111.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"700\" height=\"467\"><p id=\"caption-attachment-767634\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">photo by <a href=\"https:\/\/sergioalcalaphoto.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\">Sergio Alcala Photography<\/a><\/p><\/div>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">9. Include Your Pets<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We all love pets, so include them. If you&rsquo;re able to bring them to your wedding there are many ways to include them on your special day. A few of our favorite options include walking down the aisle with them or posing for pictures with them.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Of course, not every wedding allows for all pets to join in on the fun. Pay homage to any late favorite pets by including them on small details at your wedding. Try adding a photo or sketch of your pet on the napkins, drink menus, coasters, or your stationary. Whether it&rsquo;s your dog, cat, reptile, or any other of your lovable animals, it&rsquo;s a fun way to make it feel like they&rsquo;re at your wedding.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Shop Etsy products:&nbsp;<\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/rstyle.me\/+q4Nm9YwD-jYmKqm0hsht5A\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\">pet illustration napkin<\/a> ($34.80); <a href=\"https:\/\/rstyle.me\/+rco_O7T8dlr1fXg_1meBLQ\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\">pet wedding tag<\/a> ($10); <a href=\"https:\/\/rstyle.me\/+mE7ePvk-q2pXnr3SV5A5gw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\">save the date pet portrait<\/a> ($198)<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As your head down <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/junebugweddings.com\/wedding-blog\/the-ultimate-wedding-planning-guide-a-free-step-by-step-roadmap\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">your wedding planning journey<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, remind yourself that this is you and your partner&rsquo;s wedding. Stay true to who you both are and make it your own. To help, we have a guide on <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/junebugweddings.com\/wedding-blog\/unique-wedding-planning\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">how to plan a truly wedding unique<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. This guide will help you plan the perfect wedding and navigate the decision-making process. What are you waiting for? <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/junebugweddings.com\/wedding-blog\/unique-wedding-planning\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Let&rsquo;s get started!<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_767660\" style=\"width: 710px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-767660\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-767660\" src=\"\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/9-Ways-To-Personalize-Your-Wedding-700x1050.jpg\" alt=\"9 ways to personalize your wedding\" width=\"700\" height=\"1050\"><p id=\"caption-attachment-767660\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">photo by <a href=\"https:\/\/www.mapandcompassphotography.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\">Map + Compass Photography<\/a><\/p><\/div>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Congratulations on your engagement! 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