WEDDING BLOG

Skogafoss in Iceland. All photos in article by Tyler Rye.

The elopements of today look nothing like those of the past. Once considered a quick, courthouse fix, elopements have evolved into intimate, meaningful journeys—often taking couples across the globe to unforgettable settings. Now more than ever, weddings are about the couple and the love they share. And the reality is, for many couples, that doesn’t equate to bouquets and banquet halls. 

Enter the destination elopement. If a big wedding feels overwhelming, but the idea of saying “I do” under the Eiffel Tower or atop a mountain lights you up, this might be the path for you. To get the inside scoop, we spoke with one of today’s premier elopement photographers, Tyler Rye, whose work has taken him everywhere from Iceland’s glaciers to Jordan’s deserts. He shared with us what makes these experiences so powerful—and why more couples than ever are trading tradition for adventure.

So put down the seating chart spreadsheet, grab your suitcase, and let’s talk about eloping authentically. 

Is an Adventurous Destination Elopement Right For You?

It’s important to know that elopements aren’t for everyone. As Tyler explains, “They’re for couples who care more about the experience and personal connection with each other than the big production. They’re the ones who’d rather be hiking a trail or standing in the middle of nowhere than worrying about whether the napkins match the flowers.”

In other words, if the process of wedding planning leaves you feeling more anxious than excited, it might be time to reimagine what your wedding could be. Tyler advises couples to focus on the feeling they want to remember: “Think about what you want the day to feel like. If you want something relaxed, memorable, and maybe a little unpredictable, eloping might be the better call.”

Fanal Forest in Madeira, Portugal

Dolomites, Northern Italy

Namibia

Madeira, Portugal

Budget also plays a role. Traditional weddings in the U.S. average around $33,000 (with venues alone often topping $12,000). By comparison, most elopements cost between $5,000–$15,000 depending on location and length. Not only does this give couples more freedom, but it allows them to prioritize experiences over expenses. 

And what does an actual elopement day look like? “On the day, expect a mix of exploring, hanging out, and finding those moments worth capturing. There’s no formula.” If that idea excites you, then a destination elopement may be exactly what you’re looking for.

How To Choose the Perfect Destination Elopement Location

Destination elopements are all about place. And the options are as varied as the couples themselves. According to Tyler, “You pick a spot or at least a general idea of the kind of place you want. Then we figure out the logistics, how to get there, what permits you need, etc.”

Sometimes couples come to Tyler with a clear vision; other times, it’s as simple as saying, “We like mountains” or “We want somewhere warm.” From there, Tyler shares past client galleries, Google pins, and ideas until the right location comes into focus.

Iceland’s Katla Ice Cave

Iceland’s Kvernufoss Waterfall

Iceland’s Katla Glacier

Iceland’s Stone Bridge

So where’s the most popular elopement destination Tyler hears from couples? Without hesitation, Tyler says Iceland. With its glaciers, volcanoes, waterfalls, and black-sand beaches, Iceland offers the kind of variety you can’t find anywhere else. Tyler himself has made nearly 30 trips there—and says it never gets old.

Once a couple decides on a general area, Tyler builds out the experience. “Once I’m booked and I have a general idea of where a couple wants to elope, I can get to work. I map out a timeline based on the locations they like, and along the way, I also send over recommendations on places to stay, travel tips, and vendor recommendations.”

Unforgettable Places to Plan a Destination Elopement

Destination elopements often take couples far off the beaten path—sometimes literally. When asked about the most remote destination he’s photographed a couple so far, Tyler says Tasmania. Just how difficult was it to get there? “First you have to make it to Australia, then another two-hour flight to Tasmania. From there we hopped on another flight, this time a small six-passenger plane, and flew deep into the bush. Then we took a boat down the river to our final destination.” The end result was a destination elopement that was just as much an adventure as it was a wedding.

Canyon Point, Utah

Canyon Point, Utah

But not all destination elopements have to include extensive travel. There are nearby destinations that also offer stunning views and memorable experiences. For one, Southern Utah and the land beyond other U.S. National Parks. “The landscapes there are unreal, but everyone just flocks to the big names like Zion. There are so many places that people miss by being determined to get the shot that inspired them from social media.”

Tyler’s most memorable adventure elopement experience so far? That title goes to Jordan. “The treasury at Petra is a massive stone temple carved into the heart of a giant slot canyon. The only option my clients had was to shoot after midnight following a lantern ceremony. It was pitch black except for the lanterns. With the place empty and dark, it felt like stepping back a couple thousand years. The following day we went to the Wadi Rum Desert to meet up with locals for an overnight camping experience. It’s an experience I will never forget.” 

As for his dream location? “Oh, Antarctica! It is at the top of my list! Not only is it one of the purest places left on earth, but if I shoot there, I can finally say I’ve photographed on every continent.” So if you are interested in vowing forever in Antarctica, you know who to call.

Final Advice for Couples Considering a Destination Elopement

At its heart, planning a destination elopement is about freedom—freedom from rigid expectations, from overwhelming to-do lists, and from traditions that don’t resonate. It’s about designing a day that reflects who you are as a couple, whether that means exchanging vows on a glacier, in an old town center, or with just a handful of loved ones by your side.

The Faroe Islands

Madeira, Portugal

The Faroe Islands

As Tyler reminds us, “Do what’s right for you. Forget the expectations. If that means a big wedding, great. If it means hiking into the desert at midnight, even better. Just don’t get pressured into doing a big wedding because other people want it. In the end, your family really wants you to do what brings you the most joy.”

That’s the beauty of a destination elopement—it can look however you want it to. You can include your family or celebrate your marriage with them in a different way. You can make it a one-day adventure or a week-long journey. There’s no single formula, only the opportunity to create something that feels true to your story.

Ready to start planning? Use this ultimate elopement checklist to get started.